Do Hard Things. That’s what Alex and Brett Harris encourage in their recent book of the same title. This would be impressive enough if it were written to adults by adults. Instead, it is written to teens by teens. The Harris brothers are 19 year-old twins. At age 16, they interned at the Alabama Supreme Court. At seventeen, they served as grass-roots directors for four statewide political campaigns. By 18, they were the co-authors of the web’s most popular Christian teen blog. This year, they have co-authored a book that is destined to be a bestseller, if it hasn’t already reached that status.
If you are a teenager or plan to be someday, if you have children or grandchildren who are teenagers or plan to be someday, if you know a teenager, if you used to be a teenager, this book is for you. One warning to the post-teenagers: if you wasted your teen years, this book will produce a bit of shame and guilt. However, for me, it did it in a positive way that hasn’t made me linger in shame but rather encouraged me to get moving right now.
The Harris brothers challenge today’s teens to rebel against our culture’s low expectations. They take a decidedly Christian approach, but their book is helpful even if you are not a Christian. Their challenge is simple—Do Hard Things. Don’t take the easy path. Don’t take the path of least resistance. Don’t be satisfied with mediocrity from yourself even if everyone else thinks your mediocrity is excellent.
On the down side, I do think they missed the boat on what the Scriptures say regarding salvation. They tout the common evangelical line that salvation is by faith alone, despite the fact that the only place in the Bible the phrase “faith alone” is used is a passage saying justification does not come by faith alone (James 2:24). They totally ignore the role of baptism in becoming God’s child (cf. Mark 16:16; Acts 2:38; I Peter 3:21). Also, while I recognize we can serve God no matter what our profession, I think they confuse this with actual missionary work. I think it is great that teenagers have become involved in the ending of modern day slavery, in providing houses for the needy and food for the homeless. Those works, as good as they are, however, are not fulfilling the great commission. The great commission is to teach the gospel to the lost and baptize them in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit (cf. Matthew 28:18-20).
Despite those problems, I think this book is a must read. I have no doubt my congregation will be getting some lessons this year inspired by the challenges I read in Do Hard Things. While much of what they said applies to secular profession or social concerns, the principles highly apply to spiritual lives, as the Harris brothers repeatedly point out. Jesus called His people to avoid the broad, wide, easy road and walk on the narrow, strait and difficult road. Jesus has called us to do hard things.
The cream of the book is the discussion of the “Five Kinds of Hard.” 1) Doing things outside your comfort zone. 2) Doing things that go beyond what is expected or required. 3) Doing things too big to accomplish alone. 4) Doing things that don’t earn immediate payoff. 5) Doing things that go against the grain of the cultural norms. I especially liked #4 because it reminded me some hard things are very small. However, facing up to those small hard challenges repeatedly produces big, long-term results.
My wife picked up this book Saturday afternoon. While she was busy, I read the first chapter and then absconded with it. I finished it on Sunday evening. I guess the first hard thing I need to do is apologize to my wife for stealing. However, I’m really excited to hit 2009 with this great encouragement to Do Hard Things. I encourage you, even if it is hard, get this book. Read it. Read it to your kids. I think you’ll be changed by it. It’s definitely a springboard for your spiritual life.
Keith Walters says
sorry you all had car issues and didn't get to make it up for Christmas, the food was really good 😉
I have not read it yet but everyone has saidit is phenomenal, I will have to check it out whenever I can find some free time.
Bubba says
Edwin,
thanks for doing this review. I've gone back and forth about getting and reading this book. I have a stack of "to read" books and wasn't sure if this would be worth the investment. Based on what you say here, it sounds like I ought to go get it. Could make a difference in how I work with our high school youth.
Peace.
Edwin Crozier says
Keith, I hated we couldn't make it. $400 later, we can now drive our Suburban. However, we're still not sure it can make long trips. We'll see.
As to the book, it is great. I know it is not on the scholarly level you are probably into now. However, I think you would find it a great read. I encourage you to find some time for this one. I think you are probably already doing a great job following some of its principles.
Bubba, it is definitely a must read for anyone who works with young adults (teenagers). I think it will make a huge difference in how you work with them.
Have a happy New Year guys.
Phil says
I appreciate your comments on the book by the Harris twins. I read it about a month ago from cover to cover. I couldn't put it down. I then bought 5 copies to give to parents in our congregation as "must reads". Our family, including two teenage girls, has been discussing the ideas. The power of the book is the teen to teen approach. That has really been a point of discussion with my girls, and has seemed to motivated them more than my lectures.
Thanks for the thoughts.
Edwin Crozier says
Thanks for your comment Phil. My wife is reading the book right now and we plan to read it together with our children. Fortunately, they are all waiting to be teenagers. I'm glad this came out while we are still preparing them for those teenage years.
My oldest daughter has really been stepping up to the plate lately and I think she is perfectly ready to hear these principles (though I think they may scare her a bit at first). Anyway, I'm excited to about the conversations this will produce.
Sarah says
Looks like a great read, Edwin. The one over there on the Prodigal-Friendly Church also looks interesting.
If you guys haven't read it already, I think you would also like Family-Driven Faith. I think it was the most influential in our family for 2008. Happy 2009!